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		<title>Live-in relationships now legal in India</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 03:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[India a country of cultural values and ritual ceremonies cannot afford to plunge into western society. But since growing economy and people getting more and more aware, india finally has to step ahead and walk with the rest of the world by legalising Live-in relationship. Yeah it sounds absurd that a country like India would [...]


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<p>India a country of cultural values and ritual ceremonies cannot afford to plunge into western society. But since growing economy and people getting more and more aware, india finally has to step ahead and walk with the rest of the world by legalising Live-in relationship. Yeah it sounds absurd that a country like India would allow its citizens to do that, but its fact. the state cabinet on Wednesday gave its green signal to amend Section 125 of Criminal Procedure Code (CrPC) which seeks to protect the pecuniary interests of the &#8216;other woman&#8217;. However, it would need the Centre&#8217;s stamp of approval to become a law.</p>
<p>The definition of the word &#8220;wife&#8221; would have to be change which is under section 125. The amendment done would be like a woman who believes in Live-in relationship or want to have polygamous relationships is legal. The state has proposed a reasonably long period for that woman to stay with the mate, but has not defined duration of that period specifically.</p>
<p>In a country like india this is one of the odd step taken, but still its a better one. Now i cannot wait to see all the mess happening at center (parliament) when this bill is proposed. I can see the opposition throwing chairs and lady MPs withdrawing support, talking about usual indian stuff.</p>
<p>But its a good start for the teenagers <img src='http://blog.realin.co.in/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt="icon razz Live in relationships now legal in India" class='wp-smiley' title="Live in relationships now legal in India" />  they do not have to hide out from the neighbours and can live freely like a normal society <img src='http://blog.realin.co.in/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt="icon smile Live in relationships now legal in India" class='wp-smiley' title="Live in relationships now legal in India" /> </p>
<p>cheers !!</p>
<p>Realin !</p>


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		<title>The plastic  pearl necklace</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 08:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a short sweet story that will help people to move on in your life. Jenny was a bright-eyed, pretty five-year-old girl. One day when she and her mother were checking out at the grocery store, Jenny saw a plastic pearl necklace priced at $2.50. How she wanted that necklace and when she asked [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is a short sweet story that will help people to move on in your life.</p>
<p>Jenny was a bright-eyed, pretty five-year-old girl.</p>
<p>One day when she and her mother were checking out at the grocery store,<br />
Jenny saw a plastic pearl necklace priced at $2.50. How she wanted that<br />
necklace and when she asked her mother if she would buy it for her, her<br />
mother said, &#8220;Well, it is a pretty necklace, but it costs an awful lot of<br />
money. I&#8217;ll tell you what. I&#8217;ll buy you the necklace, and when we get home<br />
we can make up a list of chores that you can do to pay for the necklace. And<br />
don&#8217;t forget that for your birthday Grandma just might give you a whole<br />
dollar bill, too. Okay?&#8221;</p>
<p>Jenny agreed, and her mother bought the pearl necklace for her. Jenny worked<br />
on her chores very hard every day, and sure enough, her Grandma gave her a<br />
brand new dollar bill for her birthday. Soon Jenny had paid off the pearls.</p>
<p>How Jenny loved those pearls. She wore them everywhere to kindergarten, bed,<br />
and when she went out with her mother to run errands. The only time she<br />
didn&#8217;t wear them was in the shower &#8211; her mother had told her that they would<br />
turn her neck green. Now Jenny had a very loving daddy. When Jenny went to<br />
bed, he would get up from his favorite chair every night and read Jenny her<br />
favorite story. One night when he finished the story, he said, &#8220;Jenny, do<br />
you love me?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh yes, Daddy, you know I love you,&#8221; the little girl said.</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, then, give me your pearls.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh! Daddy, not my pearls!&#8221; Jenny said. &#8220;But you can have Rosie, my favorite<br />
doll. Remember her? You gave her to me last year for my birthday. And you<br />
can have her tea party outfit, too. Okay?&#8221;</p>
<p><span id="more-143"></span></p>
<p>&#8220;Oh no, darling, that&#8217;s okay.&#8221; Her father brushed her cheek with a kiss.<br />
&#8220;Good night, little one.&#8221;</p>
<p>A week later, her father once again asked Jenny after her story, &#8220;Do you<br />
love me?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh yes, Daddy, you know I love you.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, then, give me your pearls.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, Daddy, not my pearls! But you can have Ribbons, my toy horse. Do you<br />
remember her? She&#8217;s my favorite. Her hair is so soft, and you can play with<br />
it and braid it and everything. You can have Ribbons if you want her,<br />
Daddy,&#8221; the little girl said to her father.</p>
<p>&#8220;No, that&#8217;s okay,&#8221; her father said and brushed her cheek again with a kiss.<br />
&#8220;God bless you, little one. Sweet dreams.&#8221;</p>
<p>Several days later, when Jenny&#8217;s father came in to read her a story, Jenny<br />
was sitting on her bed and her lip was trembling. &#8220;Here, Daddy,&#8221; she said,<br />
and held out her hand. She opened it and her beloved pearl necklace was<br />
inside. She let it slip into her father&#8217;s hand. With one hand her father<br />
held the plastic pearls and with the other he pulled out of his pocket a<br />
blue velvet box.</p>
<p>Inside of the box were real, genuine, beautiful pearls.</p>
<p>He had them all along. He was waiting for Jenny to give up the cheap stuff<br />
so he could give her the real thing. So it is with our Heavenly Father. He<br />
is waiting for us to give up the cheap things in our lives so that he can<br />
give us beautiful treasure. Isn&#8217;t God good?</p>
<p>Are you holding onto things which God wants you to let go of?</p>
<p>Are you holding onto harmful or unnecessary partners, relationships, habits<br />
and activities which you have become so attached to that it seems impossible<br />
to let go?</p>
<p>Sometimes it is so hard to see what is in the other hand but do believe this<br />
one thing&#8230;&#8230;. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230; .</p>
<p>God will never take away something without giving you something better in<br />
its  place.</p>


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		<title>What an IT guy wants ?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 18:31:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found this article here. But, that blog has been deleted by the author. So I am recreating the post here. If anyone know the name of the actual author, please do let me know. I would be happy to give credits to him/her. If you ask me technical questions please donâ€™t argue with me [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found this article <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://thinksmarter.wordpress.com/2007/08/04/10-things-your-it-guy-wants-you-to-know/">here</a>. But, that blog has been deleted by the author. So I am recreating the post here. If anyone know the name of the actual author, please do let me know. I would be happy to give credits to him/her.</p>
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<li>If you ask me technical questions please donâ€™t argue with me because you donâ€™t like my answer. If you think you know more about the topic, why ask? And if Iâ€™m arguing with youâ€¦itâ€™s because I am positive that I am correct, otherwise Iâ€™d just say â€œI donâ€™t knowâ€ or give you some tips on where to look it up, I donâ€™t have the time to just argue for the sake of it.<img src="http://blog.realin.co.in/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/mobilecartoon2.jpg" alt="mobilecartoon2 What an IT guy wants ?" align="right" height="293" width="180" title="What an IT guy wants ?" /></li>
<li>Starting a conversation by insulting yourself (i.e. â€œIâ€™m such an idiotâ€) will not make me laugh, or feel sorry for you; all it will do is remind me that yes, you are an idiot and that I am going to hate having to talk to you. Trust me; you donâ€™t want to start a call that way.</li>
<li>I am ok with you making mistakes, fixing them is my job. I am not ok with you lying to me about a mistake you made. It makes it much harder to resolve and thus makes my job more difficult. Be honest and we can get the problem resolved and continue on with our business.</li>
<li>There is no magic â€œFix itâ€ button. Everything takes some amount of work to fix, and not everything is worth fixing or even possible to fix. If I say that you just need to re-do a document that you accidentally deleted 2 months ago, please donâ€™t get mad at me. Iâ€™m not ignoring your problem, and itâ€™s not that I donâ€™t like you, I just cant always fix everything.</li>
<li>Not everything you ask me to do is â€œurgentâ€. In fact, by marking things as â€œurgentâ€ every time, you almost ensure that I treat none of it as a priority.</li>
<li>You are not the only one who needs help, and you usually donâ€™t have the most urgent issue. Give me some time to get to your problem, it will get fixed.<span id="more-132"></span></li>
<li>Emailing me several times about the same issue in the same day is not only unnecessary, itâ€™s highly annoying. Emails will stay until I delete them, I wonâ€™t delete them until Iâ€™m done with them. I will typically respond as soon as I have a useful update. If it is an urgent issue, let me know (see number 5).</li>
<li>Yes, I prefer email over telephone calls. It has nothing to do with being friendly, itâ€™s about efficiency. It is much faster and easier for me to list out a set of questions that I need you to answer than it is for me to call and ask you them one by one. You can find the answers at your leisure and while Iâ€™m waiting I can work on other problems.</li>
<li>Yes, I seem blunt and rude. Itâ€™s not that I mean to, I just donâ€™t have the time to sugar coat things for you. I assume we are both adults and can handle the reality of a problem. If you did something wrong, I will tell you. I donâ€™t care that it was a mistake, because it really makes no difference to me. Donâ€™t take it personal, I just donâ€™t want it to happen again.</li>
<li>And finally, yes, I can read your email, I can see what web pages you look at while you are at work, yes, I can access every file on your work computer, and I can tell if you are chatting with people on an instant messenger or chat room (and can also read what you are typing). <strong>But no, I donâ€™t do it</strong>. Itâ€™s unethical, Iâ€™m busy, and in all reality you arenâ€™t all that interesting. So unless I am instructed to specifically monitor or investigate your actions, I donâ€™t. <span class="webliter_highlight_16926 webliter_highlighted_text" style="background-color: #ffff15; text-align: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-weight: inherit; font-size: inherit; line-height: inherit; font-size-adjust: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; color: inherit">There really are much more interesting things on the internet than you.</span></li>
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		<title>Why Guys Like Girlsâ€¦</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 16:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hereâ€™s a few reasons why guys like girlsâ€¦ I didnâ€™t write thisâ€¦ just found it years ago and thought it was worth holding on to. Seems a fitting time to re-post it.

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1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end makes it all worth while
8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think sheâ€™s the most beautiful thing on this earth



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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hereâ€™s a few reasons why guys like girlsâ€¦ I didnâ€™t write thisâ€¦ just found it years ago and thought it was worth holding on to. Seems a fitting time to re-post it. <img src="http://blog.realin.co.in/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/love.gif" alt="love Why Guys Like Girlsâ€¦" align="right" title="Why Guys Like Girlsâ€¦" /></p>
<p>1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo<br />
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder<br />
3. How cute they look when they sleep<br />
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms<br />
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world<br />
<span id="more-68"></span> 6. How cute they are when they eat<br />
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end makes it all worth while<br />
8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side<br />
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear<br />
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think sheâ€™s the most beautiful thing on this earth<br />
11. How cute they are when they argue<br />
12. The way her hand always finds yours<br />
13. The way they smile<br />
14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight<br />
15. The way she says â€œlets not fight anymoreâ€ even though you know that an hour later you will be arguing about something<span id="more-78"></span><br />
16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them<br />
17. The way they kiss you when you say â€œI love youâ€™<br />
18. Actually â€¦ just the way they kiss youâ€¦<br />
19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry<br />
20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly<br />
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt<br />
22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt . (even though we donâ€™t admit it)!<br />
23. The way they say â€œI miss youâ€<br />
24. The way you miss them<br />
25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesnâ€™t hurt her anymoreâ€¦..</p>


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